Science Says What Kind of Men Women are Most Attracted to


Science Says What Kind of Men Women are Most Attracted to

Guys are traditionally the pursuers, and even though we live in an enlightened society most women still prefer it that way. But lots of guys wonder what kind of man women are attracted to, and how to bring the best qualities out in themselves. Women tend to vary greatly in tastes. Lucky for most poor dolts who have hardly a clue, science has stepped in to try and answer the dizzying, age-old question of what kind of guy women want. Here are some of the things science has uncovered. If you’re flying without your wingman, you may find yourself cruising over lonesomeville for quite some time. For one thing, women rate men more attractive in group photos rather than when by themselves, at least according to a study out of the University of San Diego. Therefore, it stands to reason you look better when someone’s there with you. Researchers say this is due to something called the “cheerleader effect.” People look more attractive with their faces together, since incongruities in any one person are sort of evened out by the whole group. Another thing, women like men who know how to work a room. If you are always with an entourage and you’re the life of the party, or at least she thinks you are, you look high status and someone fun to be around.

Are you a single dad? Be sure to take your baby out cruising. Just keep it during daytime hours. Not only will you get father of the year, you might score a few phone numbers. A study in France found that men who cooed, smiled at and talked to infants were 40% more likely to score a woman’s phone number than those who ignored a baby. Researchers say it shows a greater propensity for being a good dad, should the couple have offspring. Some guys shave every day. Others sport a righteous beard. But why not shave every ten days? According to Australian researchers, men who did so were seen as the most attractive. This layer of stubble is thought to project just the right level of masculinity. Here’s some simple advice. Get some nice wheels and you’ll turn heads. If you can’t afford it, borrow some. A British study found that the same dude in a Bentley Continental was found way more attractive than one in a Ford Fiesta, even with the same clothes and facial expressions. Status is the reason, and the projection of resources which he may be willing to share with a certain, special lady.

If you’re an animal lover, taking your dog for a walk may not just be a necessity, but a way to meet someone. A French study found that women were three times more likely to give up their digits to a man walking his dog versus one who approached alone. Dogs break the ice. They also project kindness, sensitivity and thoughtfulness, all qualities women find appealing. Got a little extra time? Why not volunteer? A Cornell study found that women who knew a man volunteered found him a better candidate for dating and a long-term relationship, due to the fact that he was more selfless and compassionate. If you really want to get a woman to fall for you, make her laugh. A University of New Mexico study found that those guys who could make a sharp witted quip and make a woman laugh were more likely to have short-term, uncommitted sex than their straight-laced counterparts. These quick bursts reveal creativity and intellect, two qualities women greatly desire.

Lastly, if you want to get more hits on your dating profile, include the words “creative,” “ambitious,” and “laugh.” Dating sight Zoosk did a survey and found profiles that had these words got 33% more messages. Include words like “read” or “book” or exercise words like jogging, lifting weights and the like also increased message frequency. Be sure to take it slow. Mention “drinks” or “dinner” too quickly and your response rate will plummet 35%. So this advice improves your hit rate. But what about quality control? Read, How To Get A Date Worth Keeping: Be Dating In Six Months Or Your Money Back by Henry Cloud, and you’ll have that covered too.

Your Champagne Tastes may be Hurting your Love Life



Do you like the finer things in life? If you think you deserve nothing but the best, and project an air as such, there are advantages. A lady who knows her worth and projects it often attracts a man who is educated and has a good career. The problem is this type of woman may seem unapproachable, too judgmental or out of the league of guys who though can’t afford a lavish lifestyle, have other great character traits and could make a great date, boyfriend or even more. It’s okay to have high standards for the men you date, and also in life in general. But how do you know when your champagne tastes are hurting your love life? How do you know when your standards are limiting your swim partner choices in the dating pool? Here are signs that you appear uppity and irreproachable. What is the shopping situation? If you will only shop at the top stores, and would rather pay more than be caught dead in a Kmart, you may seem too high maintenance for many men. When going on a date with a guy, would you ever consider going Dutch, or even paying for the meal? If not, you may be concentrating more on the quality of the date than who you are out with.

Would you consider going out on a low cost date with a man you were interested in such as stargazing, hiking, a bike ride, or a stroll through the park? Or do you need to be wined and dined to be swept off your feet? If the activity is just as important as who you are with, your champagne tastes may be limiting you in love. Do you need to be taken to a certain level of restaurant to consider going on a date with someone? If a pizza isn’t good enough for you, you may seem too uppity to be approachable. What about what a man does for a living? Would you consider someone who makes below a certain income level? He makes a comfortable living but not enough to keep you at the level you believe you should be living at? Does a guy need a college degree to score a date with you no matter how funny, smart, caring and how much chemistry you two are feeling? You may be a little too snobbish. What about his car. Does he have to own a certain class of car to be seen with you? It’s okay to have high standards, but your standards should not be for income alone. Materialism is common in American society today and can truly have a harmful effect on relationships. You can learn more about this through the insight of Clinton Bland in his book, American Epidemic: High Maintenance Women.

The most important things in life and particularly in a relationship are nonmaterial. Kindness, generosity, patience, a great sense of humor, consideration, physical and emotional chemistry, and interests in common should mean far more to you than a man’s net worth, his car, or his bank account. If you believe you may be too snooty, why not loosen up a little? Wear some comfortable clothes once in a while. Try to spend a day where you have fun but spend little if any money. Take up a hobby like running, meditation, yoga or some other which has nothing to do with money. Look for important character qualities in the men you date and you will be wealthy beyond compare, though not strictly in the monetary sense.