Don’t take enjoyment in harming your adversary, however, be diligent in fighting for what is rightfully yours and have so much evidence at your disposal that your ex will struggle to come up with a defense.
Don’t allow your adversary to have all the evidence against you, leaving you constantly on the defensive end. Even if your ex has evidence against you, it will be in your favor to have your own background of evidence at your disposal.
This particular divorce will only happen once and you don’t want to look back and regret the fact that you weren’t prepared and lost out on potential assets or other benefits that you should have received. You will have no one to blame but yourself. Your legal team can only do so much, so you need to take charge.